My CTOCON23 panel discussion building a successful distributed company

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My CTO Con 23 panel discussion is now live on building a successful distributed company, discussing my experiences at GitLab and elsewhere with Iba Masood from Tara.AIi and Radoslav Stankov from Product Hunt.




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